In addition to the resources below, Milestones is a proud provider of The Family Empowerment Scholarship for Students with Unique Abilities (FES-UA). This scholarship program, in partnership with the Florida nonprofit Step Up For Students, enables families to personalize the education of their students. Funds from FES-UA can be used for a range of approved expenses including therapists, specialists, curriculum, private school, a college savings account and more.
For ADHD
Parenting the ADHD Child (Russell Barkley)
Taking Charge of ADHD (Barkley, 1995)
For Anger Management / Aggression
Parenting Your Out of Control Child (Kapalka, 2007)
The Explosive Child (Greene, 2001)
For Anxiety / Worries
Help for Worried Kids (Last, 2006)
Talking Back to OCD (March, 2007)
Freeing Your Child from Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (Chansky, 2000)
If Your Adolescent Has an Anxiety Disorder (Foa and Andrews, 2006)
Getting Your Child to Say “Yes” to School (Kearney, 2007)
Helping Your Child Overcome Separation Anxiety or School Refusal (Eisen & Engler, 2006)
For Behavioral Management
SOS: Help for Parents, Third Edition (L.Clark, 2005)
Parents are Teachers (Becker, 1971)
Living with Children (Patterson, 1976)
Your Defiant Child (Barkley and Benton, 1998)
Your Defiant Teen (Barkley, Robin, and Benton, 2008)
Parent and Adolescents (Patterson and Forgatch, 1987)
For Coping with Difficult Situations
The Optimistic Child (Seligman, Reivich, Jaycox, and Gillham, 1995)
For Depression/Bipolar
If Your Adolescent has Depression or Bipolar Disorder (Evans and Andrews, 2005)
Raising a Moody Child (Fristad and Goldberg-Arnold, 2004)
For Enhancing Parent-Child Relationships
First Feelings (Greenspan and Greenspan, 1985)
The Essential Partnership (Greenspan and Greenspan, 1989)
For Interpersonal Difficulties
Playground Politics (Greenspan, 1993)
For Anxiety
Rational Stories for Children (Waters, 1980)—cognitive distortions
Color Us Rational (Waters, 1979)—cognitive distortions
Who Invented Lemonade? (Shaw and Barzvi, 2005)—catastrophizing, pessimism
Up and Down the Worry Hill (Wagner, 2000)—OCD, 8-14
What to Do When Your Brain Gets Stuck (Huebner, 2007b)—OCD, 6-12
What to Do When You Grumble Too Much (Huebner, 2007a)—GAD, 6-12
Worry Wart Wes (Thompson, 2003)
When Fuzzy Was Afraid of Losing His Mother (Maier, 2005b)—SAD, 3-7
Catchin’ Cooties Consuelo (Thompson, 2004b)—hypochondriasis
Mind Over Basketball (Weierback and Phillips-Hershey, 2008)—worry/stress, 8-12
What to Do When You Worry Too Much (Huebner, 2006)—GAD, 6-12
The Lion Who Lost His Roar (Nass, 2000)—CBT for fearfulness, 6-10
The Bear Who Lost His Sleep (Lamb-Shapiro, 2000)—CBT for worries, 4-9
When Fuzzy Was Afraid of Big and Loud Things (Maier, 2005a)—sensitivity to loud sounds, 3-7
When Lizzy Was Afraid of Trying New Things (Maier, 2005c)
Feeling Scared (Berry, 1995)—identifying anxious feelings
Smoky Night (Bunting, 1994)—anxiety, trauma, minority populations
For Behavior Problems / ADHD
The Koala Who Wouldn’t Cooperate (Shapiro, 2006b)—CBT for noncompliance, 4-9
Loud Lips Lucy (Thompson, 2002)—self-control
Busy Body Bonita (Thompson, 2007)—ADHD
The Rabbit Who Lost His Hop (Nass, 2004)—CBT for self-control
The Penguin Who Lost Her Cool (Sobel, 2000)—anger management, 6-10
The Putting on the Brakes Activity Book for Young People with ADHD (Quinn and Stern, 1993)—ADHD, 8-13
Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day (Viorst, 1972)—frustration tolerance
For Depression / Sadness
Feeling Sad (Berry, 1996)—identifying sad feelings
For Encopresis
It Hurts When I Poop (Bennett, 2007)—4-8
Clouds and Clocks (Galvin, 1989)—3-6
For Homework
Annie’s Plan (Kraus, 2006)—HW completion, 6-11
For Identifying Feelings
Amazing Grace (Hoffman, 1991)—African American Girls
The Feelings Book (Madison, 2002)—girls
For Social Skills
Mookey and Monkey Gets Over Being Teased (Lonczak, 2007)—dealing w/ teasing
Too Nice (Pellegrino, 2002)—assertiveness, 8-12
Blue Cheese Breathe and Stinky Feet (DePino, 2004)—bullying, 6-12
In Grown Tyrone (Thompson, 2004b)—coping with teasing
The Meanest Thing to Say (Cosby, 1997)—teasing, peer relationships, African American boys
For Social Anxiety
What You Must Think of Me (Ford, Liebowitz, and Andrews, 2007)
For OCD
The Thought That Counts (Kant, Franklin, and Andrews, 2008)
For Depression
Monochrome Days (Irwin, Evans, and Andrews, 2007)
Parent Resources / TIPS
Autism Spectrum Disorder: What Every Parent Needs to Know (Paul Carbone)
Helping You Child with Autism Spectrum Disorder (Lockshin, Gillis, and Romanczyk, 2005)
Overcoming Autism (Koegel and LaZebnick, 2014) (Meghan highly recommends this one)
Discussing the Diagnosis
Dundon, R. (2017). Talking with your child about their autism diagnosis. A guide for parents. Jessica Kingsley Publishers.
Diagnosis discussion tips for parents, from the AANE, available at https://aane.org/autism-info-faqs/library/diagnosis-discussion-tips-for-parents/
Getting started: Introducing your child to his or her diagnosis of autism, from the Indiana Resource Center for Autism, available at https://www.iidc.indiana.edu/irca/resources/learn-about-autism/getting-started-introducing-your-child-to-his-or-her-diagnosis-of-autism.html
How to explain autism to a child or adolescent, from Attwood & Garnett Events, available at https://www.attwoodandgarnettevents.com/blogs/news/how-to-explain-autism-to-a-child-or-adolescent
For Teenagers
After you receive the diagnosis of an autism spectrum disorder: A resource for adolescents and adults who are newly diagnosed, from the Indiana Resource Center for Autism, available at https://www.iidc.indiana.edu/irca/doc/after-you-receive-diagnosis-adolescent.pdf
Cook, J. (2022). The Asperkid's (secret) book of social rules, 10th anniversary edition. Jessica Kingsley Publishers.
Purkis, Y., & Masterman, T. (2020). The awesome autistic go-to guide: A practical handbook for autistic teens and tweens. Jessica Kingsley Publishers.
Girls on the Spectrum
Are girls with autism hiding in plain sight?, from Kennedy Krieger Institute, available at https://www.kennedykrieger.org/stories/interactive-autism-network-ian/girls-autism-hiding-plain-sight?utm_source=iancommunity.org&utm_medium=redirect&utm_campaign=iancommunity.org-article
Autism in women and girls, from the Association for Autism and Neurodiversity (AANE), available at https://aane.org/autism-info-faqs/library/autism-women-and-girls/
Autistic Girls Network, https://autisticgirlsnetwork.org/
Recognizing and understanding autistic girls at school, from Attwood & Garnett Events, available at https://www.attwoodandgarnettevents.com/blogs/news/recognizing-and-understanding-autistic-girls-at-school
Autistic women and girls, from the National Autistic Society (UK), available at https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/what-is-autism/autistic-women-and-girls
What every autistic girl wishes her parent knew, from Child Mind Institute, available at https://childmind.org/article/every-autistic-girl-wishes-parents-knew/
Rosi – Autism and me [Video], available at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejpWWP1HNGQ&t=94s
Autistic Women and Nonbinary Network (AWN), https://awnnetwork.org/
Books for women and girls, from Autism Awareness Centre, list available at https://autismawarenesscentre.com/product-category/women-and-girls/
Castellon, S. (2020). The spectrum girl's survival guide: How to grow up awesome and autistic. Jessica Kingsley Publishers.
Autistic Women & Nonbinary Network (AWN). (2021). Sincerely, your autistic child: What people on the autism spectrum wish their parents knew about growing up, acceptance, and identity. Beacon Press.
Cook O'Toole, J. (2015). Sisterhood of the spectrum. Jessica Kingsley Publishers.
Nichols, S. (2009). Girls growing up on the autism spectrum: What parents and professionals should know about the pre-teen and teenage years. Jessica Kingsley Publishers